It is not inertia alone that is responsible for human relationships repeating themselves from case to case, indescribably monotonous and unrenewed: it is shyness before any sort of new, unforeseeable experience with which one does not think oneself able to cope. But only someone who is ready for everything, who excludes nothing, not even the most enigmatical will live the relation to another as something alive. Rainer Maria Rilke
About This Quote

Although this quote is not about relationships in particular, it is still relevant to the message of the entire book. The speaker is talking about his own life and how he felt when he was in a relationship with someone else, but in reality, the relationship only led to more loneliness in his life. He is saying that in order to have a fulfilling relationship, one must be open to new experiences and be willing to accept any challenge that comes their way.

Source: Letters To A Young Poet

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